The Importance of Discipline in Spiritual Direction

Lobbix: We're so afraid of just making a choice and thinking like if you know dating someone is going to affect the eternal salvation of my soul in that sense well actually not doing something will affect your soul. He says some people who might have a call to a vocation it might not be through their own fault they might not enter that vocation right? Lobbix: You can live a kind of quasi religious life you can't make any vows per se but you can live a life of service to the church in a secular way.