I Don't Know How Important It Is to Find a Champion of You

I think that finding a champion of you is important, but i don't know how important it is that they actually have that kind of drive or mind set themselves. So if i was psychoanalyzing a bit deeper, what i think it might be is it's if you identify as someone who does want to live like an unfulfilled life. And perhaps what i'm saying about myself is that i wouldn't want to end up with someone who I thought was er happy or complaisant.