When people hear the word “kink,” they often imagine something extreme. However, kink is actually far broader and more common than most people realize. In today’s show, we’re unpacking what kink is, what it isn’t, and why people want what they want. If you’ve ever wondered “why are people into that?”, this episode is for you.
My guest is Gigi Engle, a certified sex and relationships psychotherapist, and sex educator. Gigi is an associate clinician at The Therapy Yard, where she specializes in work with gender, sexuality, and relationship diverse clients. She is also the author of two books, with her latest being Kink Curious.
Some of the specific topics we explore include:
- What does the term kink really mean? Can anything be kinky?
- Where do kinks come from?
- Do kinky interests always have some deeper meaning?
- Why are power dynamics so commonly eroticized?
- What are the biggest things people get wrong about kink?
You can check out Gigi’s website to learn more about her work.
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