The Pros and Cons of Being Selfish in Relationships

I realized that in multiple multiple situations you refused to Change any aspect of your relationship or Bella when you guys were living together. It caused friction in Pretty much every single relationship that you ever had and not even just relationship like every girl that you were seeing And you were first situation. So for you to be so selfish and think are It's not even selfish. I think it's a form of insecurity because I remember there was a girl I was quote unquote seeing This was probably within the first year Bella and I were living together She said something along the lines of I don't believe you look at she's so pretty. How could you not? That's got fuck all to do with me