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Sex & Desire in Long Term Relationships - with Laurie Handlers

Sex Upgraded

CHAPTER

The Power of Commitment

Our definition of extraordinary lover is somebody who causes their partner to experience oxytocin. So think about that the next time you're having an argument. Is this causing oxytocin in my partner? Or is it not? Maybe I could change something. That really shifts the frame of awareness from what is my partner doing for me or for us to what can I do for my partnership as an entity itself? How do I show up to create the kind of relationship I actually want in my everyday actions more or less? Exactly.

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