How to Write a Memoir of Grief

I think I uncovered stuff about me, but also then I started to look at what was going on with everybody else around us. The fallout of his death is still really there in our family because it resulted eventually in divorce. And so when you start to kind of write about it and on pick things and you realise you look back and think, my dad should have had a counselling. My dad should have spoken to somebody. Why did we, you know, even us, nobody spoke to us? It just wasn't the way back then. So yeah, writing it down really did kind of put all those things into sharp focus. But now I look back and when I was writing and realise