Grief Is a Window of Time

I think we're also grieving our own demise you know our fear of death and it puts us like it puts impermanence right in front of us or I remember when my sister died suddenly I remember coming back after her funeral and just allowing myself the time to kind of process that not engaging me too much. And what kept coming up for me was, oh yes this is a great opportunity to experience the crisis of life because like you say it's a windowIt's just a window of time that we shut down after a while When we sort of lost our connection with this person because of their own so you don't have that same presence as when you're alive so that dissipates so we