How to Avoid Being Attached to Someone Too Soon

Rushing into the dating process and becoming obsessed with someone that we like is a super common feeling. Oftentimes we glue ourselves to people that just treat us nice because there's a lot of guys who have treated us bad so when we find a nice one we're like oh my God, I'm obsessed, I love this guy. When in reality, first of all, why are you trying to prove how amazing you are to someone? If they're getting to know you they'll see that you don't have to bend over backwards to prove anything to anyone.