The Cost of Growth in the Religious Community

I'm also wondering if included in that cost beyond the social cost is also a certain loss of virtue. Are there any virtues that we have to give up that might correlate to a certain piety or certain certainty or enthusiasm? I feel my life enriched and deepened by having grown up in the conditions of material deprivation that I grew up with, he says. He feels myself a bigger person a better person a more capable person for having that be part of me again.