I'm in Control and I Can't Handle That

Jeff Yang: I've been really resisting it this week and sort of letting myself to sort of blast apart disassemble whatever it is. He says we need to make other people feel okay with our when we do start to touch on that stuff, which is protective. "It takes me an hour and a half of noodle lane to go like okay I'm in and it's getting hot and it's right," he said. 'You have to allow the boundaries to create the space to be safe'