Dialectics - The Interdependence of Things on Their Opposite

I had someone who I know listens to um a lot of the episodes say to me that she felt like dialectic is a word that we that we use often but she wasn't sure she totally understood it which I thought of as a personal failing so I want to nail that down right now. The interdependence of things on their opposites would be like an initial and really important way of understanding dialectics. Luke Hutch says this is really I loved his definition he says dialectics says nothing else than that every every isolated thing must be related to the whole right so that's I mean that can be misleading I think because it doesn't you don't get the necessary sense of negativity in