How Did You Discover That You Didn't Care About Other People?

"i was trying a to find some peace and joy and happiness. And i i felt like i didn't know how to find it, that i was chasing it in my career," Bret says. "I wasn't abusive, i wasn't an addect, but i was really focused on the wrong things", he adds. 'It triggered a little embarrassment inside myself, like, do i even care about other people? I'm wanting them to finish what you're saying'