327: Withdrawer Vulnerability for the Win-Win
Brave Love Great Sex – Couples Therapy Podcast
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Can You Love Me Here? Can You Come?
When a withdrawal says I deserve the isolation and to be left alone, can you come? Hold me and show me that I'm lovable. This is the ultimate in riskiness. But it's also the ultimate in transformation because when it pulls that strong response for the pursuer, it's like, oh my God, I had no idea. And now that I know this, I want to swoop in and we want that active response.
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