The Importance of Perceiving Noise

"I would not jump at all to that this is frustration, or, you know, anything urgent or unhappiness," she says. "It really doesn't matter what we say, what matters is the way we're perceiving it." It's just him talking to you and getting your attention in a way that he knows works,. I mean, I definitely wouldn't ignore it, but just perceive it as, hey, someone's saying, hey".