How to Survive a Stressful Marriage

Gabor Maté has done a ton of great research on this and his books are again, I'd point you to Gabor Maté's work and any of his books really, on parenting especially. So marriage is hard. This looks like a stressful marriage on the outside, right? We peek into the front door or the home of any average person in Northwestern, you know, America, they're going to be dealing with pretty chronic stress a lot. But if you have the attitude that the point here is to grow, then you're committed to learning what it is you need to learn about yourself and your partner so that you can both return to a secure home base," she says.