There is this weird implicit assumption that even guys sometimes by into because i it gives them a break, right? People ont babies if ere free. Baby sitting is a paid gig or a thing you do out of necessity. Im not baby sitting the kids while my wife goes and does something, like i'm being a parent. She's a parent. Were also most often parents together. I guess maybe that doesn't feel like it should be complimentary. But i i like the idea that that i'm quietly doing what is obviously the right thing. Just because it's more fair doesn't mean it is fair. Or just because it is fairer doesn't mean that it is just and fair