How to Be an Autonymous Person in Relationships

There is kind of an unspoken rule of late, not rule, but just like understanding that we don't listen to each other's podcasts ever. No one wants to see their spouse night after night doing the same ish. Imagine if you were stage managing his restling podcast. And in relationships, it's good to have your own specific thing as you need to be an autonymous person even if you're codependents.