What Are Your Comparison Points?

What you compare yourself to, whether it's other people or your own expectations, basically decides how youre to feel about things. So if you have this expectation of what your life should be like that maybe you created, or maybe family created, or your peers, or someone that didn't even ask you, hey, what kind of life do you want? And your actual life is this. Because there's this gap, you're not going to feel great. That gap is bad. But still, i will have plenty of moments of unhappiness, partially when i am not pursuing something that is really engaging and not growing? Growing is very important to us. Once i had that total freedom