Connecting With Yourself

i'm very concerned about establishing trust with her right now. And if her need isn't to have i contact with me, or to even face me bodily, i want respect that. Sometimes that touch is more important than any words sometimes. It's just another way of saying, i'm with your feelings. If you're not connected to the life in yourself, it's going to be very hard to connect with others. I think there are times when the other person wants this desperately, more than the words.