In reading untamed and forward the memoir thatb was at the librarian's dinner to promote, i can see the intricacies of the threads that tie you together. I know i'm a bit of a nightmare to live with, with my need for control constantly at odds with my instinct to go with the flow. And glenin, in his marriage with abbey, i have come to understand that i am a very controlling person, ok? So so it's your aversion of best, yes, yes. And that comes which is honest. Ma, i will tell you what's the best, and then we will all go for it. But i just want what ireal ans