Is That a Problem You Face?

David: One of the struggles i face is not understanding what the expectations are from the communication that is going to happen. Men generally go into a fixed mode, like everything, and immediately my brain engages into how can i fix this? Especially for his wife, because i want her life to be perfect,. And she's not telling me something to get, you know, mister, fixit out. She's just telling me something. But tha, the tendency is to listen in order to respond. He says everyone could improve their listening abilitis.