How to Turn the Situation Sexually Without Turning the Language and the Conversation Sexually

Sex is not a different thing from the rest of what you're trying to do. Sex is the physical expression of an attraction that you and the girl mutually hold. It's just the inevitable conclusion of a lot of attraction. The only time that's going to happen is if you're hiring someone for sex or if maybe you're in a long-term relationship, right? But in these first encounters where you're going from just flirting with somebody to having sex, the middle ground is not like what you guys have been saying. And it's via that nonverbal behavior that the escalation occurs.