Dating is complicated. People make mistakes. You make mistakes. I make mistakes. We have to acknowledge this. The one thing we can control, the one thing that we can look at in ourselves and in others, is keeping our word. What do we do after we make a mistake? Do they keep their word afterwards? That is what we're looking at. And notice, i'm talking about after the mistake has been done. We're past the mistake. We're not doing this thing where we look at if they a re scheduled dinner an hour before and we obsess over that. Because we can get so wrapped up in that initial mistake we'll lose our minds.