You Know You're a Quote-Unquote Virgin and You Know It's Your First Time

queer imposter syndrome don't we all experience it oh yes we do well I think like there's also this really harmful narrative that you know people deserve to know if you're a quote-unquote virgin. Some of us have internalized those narratives and almost feel like we're burdening somebody by being by having our first time with them or like they're doing us some kind of favor so I think we really need to set that aside Like there are no favors being done these are just two people both encountering new bodies new people no one's doing anybody any favors according to your point about virginity.