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Is There a Sham Pet in a Vasulator?
Kay and Sheila, you know what's interesting here is that shame you're talking about was imposed upon them by somebody else. Avoidors just detach from feelings. Pleasers are so looking at you and trying to make you happy. Vasulators are filled with their own feelings and they're often very painful. And then in private, there's kind of a shame pet where they're very hard on themselves, but they don't ever tell anyone about those experiences.