Adoption - Is Ada a Loss?

i think that part about the expectations is so important, because she was not trying for maybe many years to have a child of her own. She didn't have all that going on. This worto, like just the child plopped down there because she had an extra roomand her and her gols at the beginning, are to take physical care of them. Not no matter how you you phrase the adoptive narrative, they're still a loss,. But she's coming at it, like you said, without those axpects.