We think what we want is bliss all the time. But that's not realistic, andthat's not even what i think what we really want. And then once you explore that, and the deeper you go with this practice, you're going to find that you feel everything. James eddart said to me, he goes, no feeling is wrong. Yes, some actions might not be the optimum action for you or your highest self, or whatever, but no feeling iswrong. I loved it. Like nobody. It didn't even occur to anybody. That kind of resilience and centre a, i think it's joseph goldstein, maybe he calls it, walking evenly on