How to Set Amounts Away

I'm surprised at how little it hurts to set aside some money. And then you just slowly try to increase that. I think of it as like a little, I don't know, the vice is the right word because you think of your head in a vice. You just slowlytry to increase like, okay, $100 this year has been fine. We haven't even noticed it. Let's do 125. And slowly you're suddenly you're like, wow, we're saving 10, 20% of our, of our,. of our income between our 401Ks and other stuff. And we don't really even feel it. It felt almost free, which was a interesting realization