I like the insecurities that we were talking abouti athe the fact that, you know, obviously i do have, i'm sureit issues. I'm sure i have some sort of blind spots that i can't see. And so when i show myself to somebody who might be a prospect in dating, im ont to paint the picture that everything is perfect. So for me, the when i try to hide and suppress is probably my need for any sort of reassurance or help, or anything like that. But then, like, this is kind of a weird self fulfilling prophecy, because what if you actually don't have issues? The average age at which people are forming long lasting