Theology and Theology and Patriarchy in a Second Part of the Conversation

I want to talk about patriarchy both as ontological and epistemological realities. I think that idea of our lives being revelatory is pretty terrifying to many people who grew up in a like skydaddy theology which says God's gonna strike you down if you do anything outside of the Bible  in this really weird way. so interesting especially as we're having this conversation that we'll move into talking about patriarchy in a second because dimensionality to me robs patriarchy of its power. Many of us might live as though those patriarchal ideas areYeah yeah well let me I'll kind of add to your really helpful to framework right? So where does this all come from or how did it start