External Validation Is the Key to Your Success

It's also kind of a slippery slope to right like if you if right now in this moment to avoid some marginal discomfort or let's call it even a major discomfort to your life. You're willing to compromise your principles. Every time you do something like that it gets easier to do it again. And then and then not only that but the other side the the coercive side now has the expectation that you can be coerced. It's about having these walls on your house so they hold the weight up to keep the shit out.