Is the Best Man?

The only biblical reference that i know of is john the baptist is referred to linguistically as jesu's best man, that he stands at the door waiting for the arrival. But it's really not, probably as ancient in history as we might like to thinkb so the wedding is consummated and now you have to figure out how to love each other. And it kind of goes totally backwards in our culture. We talk about song of songs, soever we talk about the different kinds of love? Yes, yet to be there, and itwill be a really good conversation. A but that kind of on idea for eastern ways.