i asked you, why don't you let yourself have an identity about work? You sort of admit, i can grudgingly push you into admitting that you're proud. But generally speaking, i keep getting lucky. I just kind of showed up. So there's no, there's no ownership pride. If it could all go up in smoke, how does that tie into your mind being unable, or trying to resist, giving you a work based e? Yes, it's, i'm, this is a sort ofa, i'm pushing you here. Let's n ye is ally right as well!