Men traditionally seek other men for these kind of scenarios because they don't want to appear weak. Vulnerability doesn't have to be their deepest secret, it can just be even something like taking an entire day to decide if you wanted to see me or not. So that's pretty much the jist ofmi. And so is there something to say about the entire culture needing to shift? There arn't s that do exist, we just don't broadcast them.
Women say they want a man who is open and willing to be vulnerable, but is this really true? Back in 2019, Shan participated in a YouTube discussion with Aba and Preach where they covered this very topic.The conversation amassed over 1.3M views and nearly 9000 comments. Two years later, Shan, Aba & Preach re-visit this under-represented dialogue about why some men don't yet feel safe to show their vulnerable side with their partners.