I'm Just Going to Get Over That Man Right Out of My Hair

"I need to harden up. I'm just going to pull myself up," a 13-year-old girl tells her mom in the film. "No one can escape it, and we make choices around how we're then going to encode that into how we live the rest of our lives," says director Judd Apatow. The mother may believe she's trying to build resiliency, but that is directly based out of her wounding.