Introduction

Paul Coleani: Life presents the toughest challenges. He says we're told to keep saying affirmations and keep thinking positively, but what do you do when that stuff doesn't work? Welcome to the overwhelmed brain, where you'll learn to make decisions that are right for you so that you can create the life you want now. "Loveandabuse" is on CNN TV at 10 p.m. ET/PT Monday through Friday.