The Importance of Confidence

Hossey: You have to have a certain amount of confidence to tell a guy who's already sitting in the in the car that no you're not going to give him a ride get the hell out like that right. He says when he was growing up anybody who broke from the bit of being an adult i think was seen as being maybe not weak but definitely like a little disorganized in their thinking and behavior well you seem erratic, hossey writes. Hossey on how his father wouldn't let him do things "a father in my time would never do": "I use the f-word and and talk about all kinds of stuff um that just would have been"