In order to get the kind of person that you want, you have to become the kind of people that that person would want to be with. This is very basic. Nobody wants to to understand this because they were told by their mam growing up all that matters is sunshine and rainbows. What matters is that you have built yourself into a desirable partner. And that goes for both both both sexes. Wateer, whatever, whether you ga or whatever you like, gro your if you want that greatness of partner, you are going to have to become that greatness. That's just reality,. ok? So instead of complaining about how you can't meet anybody, or you can't find