Adopted Children Tend to Focus On, You Know, Why Wasn't I Loved?

Adopted children tend to focus on, why wasn't i loved? Why wasn't I kept? That is the big thing for them. So i told her a story from daan about how daddy and i were looking for our perfect baby. And we looked all over the world,. We made up this whole crazy, big story. Then one day we got a phone call and they said, we found your perfect baby. Where is she? She's in china, ok? "i never referred to my my daughter's biological parents as her mother, o biological mother, or or her biological father" 'I want them to know that i am their mother'