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The Importance of Comparing Yourself to Your Ex Partner
I think the cake thing's funny because there's things that we've done like that. And I think they're massive moments and the kids don't remember. But I think they always remember how you made them feel. So they always remember that they feel included, but they might not remember the moments. We have to talk about it so that everyone's comfortable. That is the amount of change that's happening for children in any blended family. You can't just spring change in a child. The book also touches on feeling judged as a step parent when it comes to comparison. It would make me feel edgy if other people were sort of watching us or said, oh, are these you