How to Help a Depressed Person Change Their Identity

If you lead someone through the process as I describe in my other classes or in my longer workshops and it doesn't work then the issue might be that you did do it right and the behavior is simply outside of their identity. So this is an important distinction to make because it fries people's brains going I'm doing it right, why isn't it working? And that often leads to the dominant feeling like a failure, feeling inferior, feeling like he's insufficient or not enough. The techniques of that are fairly invasive and I've been trying to figure out the best way to teach them. But when someone has an identity as a depressed person you know it's perfectly moral to help them change that