The idea on the course is to find that sweet neutral spot within yourself where I realize you're an innocent child of God, then and only then will I know whether I'm supposed to take this shit or leave the room. He says in the course, my mind joined with your mind can chine away the ego. That's when you say, I need help here. This is not a matter of a friend just saying, oh, lighten up. I need some real help here. And amazing things do happen. Because even though the course is very hardcore non-dual, it speaks in dualistic language and says, take my hand, I'll walk you through this. Like