The Letter From Two Truths and Many Lies

"I had been moving through this first six months of widowhood with a strange sense that grew more and more each day of sort of being unburdened. By that point, it wasn't so much the sex anymore, because I knew I would never understand exactly what happened," she says. "The feeling of violation that I felt kind of crazy during the last years of my marriage one person that I spoke to about it afterwards said he gaslighted you for listeners who might not have watched the conversation."