How to Transform Conflict Into Connection

Whenever your partner is acting like a weirdo towards you, it means that they're feeling hurt or scared. Your job is to understand them and communicate that understanding. And if you're putting those ingredients into these discussions, it will soften,. It will deescalate, and it will turn into an opportunity to have a productive conversation. As opposed to just having a crappy argument about who's right. Because as you know, that is not good for everybody.