How to Have a Romantic Style of Communication

I have a client right now who does exactly that he's going 100% in. We're able to try a lot of things and we're able to see changes in his wife's behavior little by little. It's all about understanding why like am I feeling pleasure in my intimacy and is my partner feeling pleasure? Is there an emotional safety in our communication as a partnership where we can admit when we're not feeling pleasure? Are you able to embrace each other physically through a hug that lasts more than two seconds or a kiss that lasts longer than a peck?"