If you could do that in life, it's going to help people in a big way To take ownership. And then what you do is you can ask Questions about where they're going. You know we had an interesting conversation with uh chris vos and he pointed out the fact which I agree with That the word why is an accusatory word,. Hey, why are you doing this? Why are you tailgating that car? The question puts people defensive immediately so instead if you say something like hey What's your end goal that you're trying to achieve here orYou know, hey, how does this fit? How does it fit in your long-term goals?