Coaching Coaches - I Am a Failure, Which Causes Me to Fail?

We want o cusas coaches on patterns, not outcomes. So i want you to answer this question, k, please get it right. I am a failure. I believe i am a failure, which causes me to fail. What's the difference between these two statements? One is a fact, absolutely what's the other one? It's like tis to eliniably distance emotion, right? This is it. When when your clients get distance, when the facts that control their life become emotion, their life can change huge, huge impact happens subtly. Happens because you model it.