I've always felt Like it was definitely more on the lover side because of how I'm pathetic. So sometimes I I really sacrificed My happiness for happiness of somebody else And that like showed a lot showed up a lot in like relationships At pretty shitty experiences so that wasn't great But one thing that really helped me a lot was meditation and learning about personality types. Knowing about the personality type can actually give you insights on how you can manage your energy to be more productive or To interface better with other people Or to save more energy when you need to save energy. It's just the way that you approach it and react to it that makes a difference. Being too much on one side that's probably