The idea that you could share a image of your child with a loved one across the ocean is a ridiculous idea. At' some point there is inevitably a story that someone has been suckered into that actually comes true. The odds of each one of those going right, like five%. But you want a check to make sure there aren't blockers on the way that are immovable. What's in control, what's out of control, what needs to go right along the way it alrea to get there?