Transgender Dilemma - Do I Use the Name You're Using?

"It's important for us then to make a distinction between people who struggle with gender dysphoria and the advocates," she says. "I feel like some of them are well-meaning that want to help and others, I feel like are taking advantage of the situation." She recommends avoiding pronouns in certain cases or coming up with an agreed nickname rather than insisting on what you will be called.